Change is Inevitable

Everyone experiences change, from time to time. Our lives changed, the day we got diagnosed...when someone gives birth, when someone passes away, when someone gets married, or divorced...things change; even our everyday lives are different, from day to day. It's how we progress through life.

Yesterday, I announced on my Facebook page, that there were some big changes about to take place in my life. Today, I’d like to share what they are, with you. A couple things you may already know about.

As I've mentioned before, I’m legally married (Lee is my maiden name); my estranged husband and I haven’t seen each other for over a year. Our lives are moving in two different directions; and, I've encouraged him to file for an annulment, since he’s the one who doesn't want to be in the marriage, anymore. He was the one who suggested the separation, and shortly after that, he left Ohio.

The only time I've ever heard from him is when I've e-mailed him, and he sends a reply; and all he’s talked about are his dreams of owning a house for himself, and making a life for himself…no mention of me in that future, at all. And, he certainly wasn't all that concerned, when I told him about my diagnosis; he told me he wasn't sure what I expected him to do about it, but he was sorry I was going through this. So, I’m waiting for him to file the annulment, and send it to me, so I can sign it; in one of our previous e-mail conversations, I gave him my address, but I have no idea where he is.

I’m also making plans to move to Knoxville, TN, sometime this year. The sooner, the better, as far as I’m concerned; however, I still have to remind myself that all things happen in God’s timing, not ours! LOL!

As I’m making these plans to relocate, I've created a Wish List for myself; it’s comprised of all the things I want for my new home. I think it’s a complete list...there are a few things I intentionally left off the list; I can get them, the day I move into my new apartment. You can see my Wish List here; and, if you would like to help me fill it, I appreciate that! Thank you, very much!!

The shipping address is different than mine…I’m having my things shipped to Knoxville ahead of me, so by the time I get there, I’ll only have to move in, rather than spend the day collecting furniture and things. That just makes more sense to me! If you've decided to help me fill this list, and can't find the shipping address, please let me know!

My oldest daughter, her hubby, and their families live in the Knoxville area, so I’ll have familiar faces around me, even though my surroundings will be unfamiliar for a while. My oldest daughter’s Dad and I have been friends for years, even though our marriage didn't work out, either. And, everyone’s excited about me coming to live there! The storage facility I rented is at the company she works for…she’s the Assistant District Manager, at Storage Pros and works at the facility on Sutherland Avenue! If you ever need a storage unit, in Knoxville (or know someone who does) I highly recommend Storage Pros…and you can tell them I sent you!!

And, as you may know…in July, my youngest daughter will give birth to my first Grandchild! It’s a girl, by the way! I've already begun picking out frilly little dresses, and hair bands; and I’m in the process of crocheting a blanket for her…the nursery colors will be pink, brown and white!

My daughter has even been discussing some “raising baby” rules with me, for when I have her to myself. She’s going to be such a great Mommy; I'm so proud of her!! She’s also talked about plans that she and her boyfriend are making to take the baby on trips, and to museums, amusement parks, the zoo, etc. Everyone is SUPER excited, and very anxious for the baby’s arrival…July can’t come soon enough for us!! LOL!!

The last big change will happen gradually; I’m hoping to be able to lose at least 80 lbs. by this time, next year. I’m looking forward to being lean and healthy, once again… I've been overweight, and unhealthy, for far too long!! Look out world…here comes the “New Me”!!

And, there you have it! These are the big changes that will soon be happening in my life. I have a feeling life is going to be one great big adventure, with all these things taking place; but, I think I’m up to it! LOL!!

Thanks for being part of that adventure! Have a blessed day!! oxoxox